MY Mum, Your Dad star Tolullah Aiyela has told fans how she furiously left her ‘cheating’ ex partner, vowing never to see him again.
Designer Tolullah, 51, claimed to have found her other half on the ‘sugar daddy’ site Seeking Arrangements five years ago, which has since been renamed to Seeking.
Across a string of Threads posts, the former matchmaker explained how she and her daughter Georgia-Blu sought sweet revenge after discovering his profile.
She wrote on Wednesday: “In 2019 my daughter & I figured out my longterm live in partner was on Seeking Arrangement (Google it).
“Saying nothing to him, I calmly booked movers and found a new home in the following 2 months – then told him my family was coming over from Africa and he should stay in a lovely AirBnB for four days ( paid for by me) only for him to arrive home to an empty house with printouts of his Seeking Arrangement profile strewn all over the floor and him BLOCKED from my entire life. betrayal.”
Tolullah then uploaded a video of the evidence she had left inside the property, as well as a clip of him setting off on his motorbike outside their house.
She wrote yesterday, “The day I got the keys to my amazing new home after my daughter & I silently left my cheating ex (unbeknownst to him!)
“The feeling of safety and beauty all wrapped with gratitude. I couldn’t have found a better space if I’d dreamt it.”
And in another, she elaborated, “Sometimes you just know there is no point in confronting your cheating spouse.
“Sometimes there is more strength in silence and actions rather than in words. betrayal.”
Tolullah was heaped with support by her followers, who praised her for “knowing your worth” and “protecting you and your daughter’s peace”.
Seeking boasts an array of young women seeking relations, with its website description telling “sugar daddies” they can get up to four “sugar babies” a day with “no strings attached”.
Directly underneath, it tells “sugar babies” they will be able to find a “mentor” and “date experienced men who don’t play games”.
After gaining full access to the site, a Mail on Sunday reporter discovered dozens of UK accounts owned by young women who flaunted their virginity.
Whilst on the ITV show, presented by Davina McCall, Tolullah had a complicated journey.
During the dating contest, which was billed as the Love Island for middle-aged single parents, contestants Martin M, Martin H, Tolullah and Monique found themselves in a “love square”.
Martin M and Monique clicked while Martin H and Tolullah also hit it off – but they then swapped partners.
The property developer even came under fire from his co-stars, with Roger branding him a ‘game player’ after he used the same chat up techniques on Monique and Tolullah.
Tolullah eventually rejected her initial partner Martin H, for Martin M, but was brutally dumped as Martin M ultimately chose Monique.
